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10 training games. 6 complete courses. A full toolbox of AI-powered tools. Four communities built around who you are — Family, Couples, Self, or Spiritual. Weekly live sessions with Dr. B. Fresh content every month.

Your own control panel — with games that wire every skill into your nervous system, tools that apply the 4 LAWS directly to your situations, and a community of people walking the same path. Everything to keep trust alive.

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FREE RESOURCES

Not sure if the 4 LAWS can work for your personal relationships?

Start Here

Download our free guides. These laws work in every relationship—including the one with yourself.

Introduction to the 4 LAWS: Get the overview in 15 minutes - Understand the framework before diving deeper

Kids Introduction to 4 LAWS Booklet: Share the concepts with young people in age-appropriate language.

First Aid (Condensed Course): For exhausted people who need answers NOW

DIGITAL LEARNING:

SELF-PACED PROGRAMS

Can't attend live training? These self-paced video courses guide you through implementing the 4 LAWS at your own speed.

Perfect for: Busy people who need flexibility or individuals not ready for live coaching.

4 LAWS BASICS

$35 COURSE

The complete self-paced video course. Learn all 4 LAWS at your own speed.

Perfect for: Self-starters who learn well independently.

What's Included:

  1. ALL Videos (5-Session Course)

  2. Presentation Slides for every video

  3. Downloadable worksheets

  4. Lifetime access

  5. Trade-up to Premium course option

PREMIUM COURSES

Youth, Parent and

     Adult Courses

YOUTH PREMIUM COURSE

CLAIM YOUR RIGHTS

I'M IN CHARGE

"I taught my mom the Laws." — Alex, age 11

$75 YOUTH COURSE
For Parents
Give Your Child a Weapon That Never Runs Out of Batteries.

You can't be in the hallway when the bully strikes. You can't sit next to them when the wrong crowd starts pulling. You can't be the voice in their head when an adult with authority uses it badly.

But a child who knows their rights — and knows how to hold them — doesn't need you there.

They speak clearly. They stay calm. They enforce without aggression and without apology.

This is the best protection you will ever give your child. Not a rule. Not a punishment. A law they carry inside them — for life.

Get This for My Child →
ALEX: Dude. My sister took my controller. Again.
JAMIE: So?
ALEX: So I didn't yell. Didn't snitch. I just said: "That's mine. Law 2. Give it back or make it right."
JAMIE: ...And?
ALEX: She gave it back. Then asked what Law 2 was.
JAMIE: Wait — you taught your SISTER the Laws?
ALEX: Bro. I taught my MOM.
What happened next

My sister used to take my stuff all the time. I'd yell. She'd yell back. Mom would yell at both of us. Nobody won.

Then I took this course. Learned the 4 LAWS. Got my certificate.

Next time she grabbed my controller, I didn't freak out. I just said: "Law 2 — that's mine. Return it or replace it."

She laughed. But then Mom said: "He's right."

Now? My sister asks before she borrows. My mom asks ME what the Laws say when there's a fight.

I'm 11. And I'm in charge.

What’s Included:


  1. All 13 training videos (same as parents get)

  2. 6 Youth Practice Worksheets

  3. 12 "If You Were the Parent" Scenarios

  4. Find the Need Tool

  5. Sanctuary Practice Room

  6. Culture Bearer Certificate (wallet-sized ID card)

  7. Lifetime access to course

It is easier to build strong children than to repair broken men.
— Frederick Douglass
Children are not things to be molded, but people to be unfolded.
— Jess Lair
Dr. Eduardo M. Bustamante

EDUARDO M. BUSTAMANTE, Ph.D.

Clinical & Child Psychologist

Author of The 4 LAWS of Trust and Talent

Founder, 4 LAWS Academy

www.4lawsacademy.com

Dear Parent,

My name is Eduardo Bustamante — but kids call me Dr. B.

Your child just asked for something unusual.

Normally, we train parents first. They learn the 4 LAWS. They become Culture Bearers. The home transforms from the top down.

But some kids don't wait.

These are the ones who fight for justice — sometimes the wrong way. They get labeled difficult. Defiant. Too much.

They're not bad. They're frustrated. They want freedom. They want control. They want to matter.

We can't force this training on a child. We wouldn't. It doesn't work that way.

But when a young person asks to master the 4 LAWS — when they find this page on their own — something different happens.

Your child just asked.

Part of them wants more control, more things. That's normal. That's the hunger that brought them here. But that's only at the start.

Once they discover the true power of the 4 LAWS, the transformation begins. We don't suppress that fire — we aim it.

We light the fire of their talent and watch them grow in trust.

Parents and children who are best friends — not adversaries.

Siblings who become faithful companions.

A family with passionate interests and gifted creations.

Children who know right from wrong early — because they chose it.

This is what the 4 LAWS build.

Consider taking the course together. Learn the same language. Share the same compass. Become the family you both dream of.

"Children are not things to be molded, but people to be unfolded."

— JESS LAIR

With hope for your family,

Dr. B

35 Years Helping Families Thrive

Say yes to your child's instinct to lead.

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ADULT PREMIUM COURSE

Trust-Ability Course: Complete Practice Systems for Individuals and Families

Learn the 4 LAWS, then practice applying them to real situations until alignment becomes automatic. This is where knowledge becomes mastery.

Perfect for: People who want more than knowledge — they want mastery.

What’s Included:

  1. Presentation Slides for every video

  2. Individualized Exercise Sheets

  3. 12 Practice Scenarios with detailed 4 LAWS responses

  4. Role-Play Training Protocol

  5. Situation Room Access

  6. Downloadable Exercise Worksheets

  7. Lifetime access

  8. Optional: Add Audiobook (+$10)


Live Training


TRUST-ABILITY TRANSFORMATION COURSE

Live online course delivered via Zoom where you learn directly from Dr. B and connect with others transforming their relationships.

Perfect for: Anyone who wants direct guidance, community support, and real-time Q&A.

What’s Included:

  1. 8 weekly live Zoom sessions with Dr. B

  2. Small group format (personalized attention)

  3. Weekly implementation assignments

  4. Troubleshoot your specific challenges

  5. Email support between sessions (48-hour response)

  6. Connect with other 4 LAWS learners

  7. 24 Advanced Scenarios

  8. Expanded Presentation Slides (deeper material)

  9. Teaching Page Access**

  10. Audiobook included

  11. Certificate of completion

Choose Your PathElige Tu Camino

From Forced Goodness to Chosen Goodness — at your own paceDe la bondad forzada a la bondad elegida — a tu propio ritmo

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Worksheets & PDFsHojas de Trabajo y PDFs
Practice ScenariosEscenarios de Práctica 12 36 25 25
Individualized Exercise SheetsHojas de Ejercicio Individualizadas
Role-Play TrainingEntrenamiento con Role-Play
4 LAWS AudiobookAudiolibro 4 LEYES +$10
Academy MembershipMembresía de la Academia
10 Training Games NEW10 Juegos de Entrenamiento NUEVO
Member Control PanelPanel de Control del Miembro
Communities — Family, Couples, Self, SpiritualComunidades — Familia, Parejas, Personal, Espiritual
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O P T I O N 1

Learn how the 4 LAWS culture works and what it means to build trust in your relationships.

Perfect for: Anyone who wants to understand the framework before committing to deeper work.

What you'll discover:

  1. Why "forced goodness" destroys trust in any relationship

  2. How the 4 LAWS create conditions where people WANT to connect

  3. Real stories of transformation from conflict to genuine connection

  4. The talent cascade that turns opposition into passion

Complete Set (Book + Training Manual)

O P T I O N 2

O P T I O N 3

The book explains WHY relationships struggle. The Training Manual shows you exactly WHAT to do, step by step, to transform your connections.

Perfect for: Anyone ready to commit to real, lasting change.

What you get:

  1. The 4 LAWS of Trust and Talent (comprehensive book)

  2. Step-by-step Training Manual Workbook with exercises

  3. Implementation guides for each law

  4. Troubleshooting common challenges

  5. Weekly action plans for building your 4 LAWS culture.

For Clinicians

Dr. Eduardo Bustamante's 2000 book "Treating the Disruptive Adolescent" introduced the foundation: choice + mastery = true self. The 4 LAWS method expands this proven approach to transform not just oppositional behavior, but your entire relationship culture permanently.

Clinician Handbook

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